This Friday, June 1, Confessions of a Partyphile is
conquering new territory by throwing its first-ever pool party. Burn: The
Summer-Ender Sunset Party. Happening at the poolside of Marco Polo Davao, this
party will hopefully end the season of the sun with enough oomph to keep people
talking until the next Confessions of a Partyphile event. However, being in a
new venue and a totally different atmosphere means that people must act to roll
with the whole vibe of the event. For natural partyphiles, switching from party
personas to fit the theme is a cinch, but for newbie partyphiles, discovering
how to act in a laid back poolside party may not be as easy. Thus we present to
you the do’s and don’ts of pool parties.
Do: Maintain a carefree attitude and a laid-back vibe.
Remember, this is a pool party. Anything intense wouldn’t be appreciated. Thus,
extreme make-up, extreme-flirting, extreme-drinking, and extreme-rowdiness may
not be as welcome as in a club setting.
Don’t: Push your friends into the pool. First of all, it
gives the host a mini heart attack. Secondly, you may ruin stuff in the
process. Throwing an unknowing friend into a pool may destroy a cell phone kept
in his pocket, a perfect pack of fresh cigarettes, wads of cash, a leather
wallet, or his waning pride. Plus, it’s very High School. If you can, please abstain
from any poolside horsing.
Do: Try to make new friends. That is essentially one of the
main purposes for partying. Part of the fun in attending events and parties is
meeting new people. Whether to expand your network, clout, or your social
circle; it is always an exciting activity to meet new friends. So go on and
mingle with other people. Don’t stay in your own little secluded area with your
friends. Try to make some small talk with everyone you come across at the
party.
Don’t: Drown in the pool. The last thing you would want to
happen is to drown in the pool because you are too drunk. I know it may seem
silly to have this on the list but please trust me when I say some people need
this friendly reminder.
Do: Come up to the host. Any host would appreciate their
guests coming up to them for small talk. It builds rapport and gives the host a
sense of how the crowd is enjoying the party.
Don’t: Come in jeans. Come on! It’s a pool party. Although I
am not one for strictly implementing a dress code during my events (because it
just puts everyone in a flurry to find the perfect outfit) I think poolside
party-wear shouldn’t involve jeans. Why?
Do: Handle your drinks well. Alright, alright. I know my
parties are infamous for serving really strong cocktails disguised by sweet flavours
but hear me out. No matter how hard the drink, or how strong the alcohol, it is
always a must that you try to hold it in as well as you can. Drink only as much
as you can handle and please drink some water in between glasses of alcohol.
This is extra-important when in a pool party because a lot more accidents can
happen by the pool.
Don’t: Play too rough. I know some of my partyphile guests
find it fun to break stuff and push people around; but it isn’t very attractive
and makes everybody else uncomfortable. Seriously, you should have left all
those in pre-school.
Do: Try to be respectful to others. Pool parties and skimpy
clothes always come hand-in-hand. This does not give you permission to stare at
people; although I am sure it may be very difficult to help. Just try your best
to keep your urges contained and be content with a few stolen glances unless
you want other party attendees to get freaked out.
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